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Nowaday, I thougt talking about family is delicate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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When I was teenage, I lost my mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don’t tell that actively. If someone asks me about my family, I tell. And then, anyone who was told says “I’m sorry” and feels awkward. I also feels awkward because my story spoiled the atmosphere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is ordinary for me that I lost my mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I realize it isn’t common and I needed to try hard, but I’m happy and my story is ordinary because I only live my own life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I notice someone feel sorry about my story, I thought I shouldn’t tell about my story even though it is just a fact. It is difficult for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A casual chat about family isn’t casual for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why everyone feels sorry to me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What made the atmosphere awkward? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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